Members of the Class of 2002 (the rest of you can listen
in if you’d like). This afternoon I shall predict your future.
That is treacherous. There are few ways to be right, many ways to be
wrong.
Still, I am confident that what I say will come true. I know your future
because your future is in front of you. Now, that may sound obvious,
but I mean it literally. Before you and behind me sit seventy members
of the Class of 1952. Fifty years ago they gathered in the Civic Auditorium
in downtown Grand Rapids to hear the Reverend R. B. Kuiper speak on
“The Balance that is Calvinism,” then walked into a world
that was no more certain than our world is now.
I know your future because I asked the Class of 1952 to tell me about
its past. Like good Calvin folk given an assignment, they turned it
in. Quite a few of them are sitting behind me. Thank you!
What they did, you will do. Where they struggled, you will struggle.
What they suffered, you will suffer. The particular events of your lives
will differ, but the broad outlines will be the same. Their past is
your future.
The Calvin yearbook for 1952 opened with these words: “We cannot
stop to congratulate ourselves on our initial progress, but we must
strive to make the coming years even more successful.” Strive
they did, succeed they did. Let me tell you about them.
Most of the Class of 1952 married, as will most of you. Many of them
wed Calvin classmates. Some of you will do the same. A third of all
Calvin alumni, by the way, are married to other alumni. We sometimes
joke about students too eager to marry, and it is true that Calvin College
is an educational rather than a matrimonial institution. Yet it is also
true that one of the most critical decisions that most of you will make
is who to marry, and marriages between those who share deep convictions
are likely to endure. Most of the marriages of 1952 have lasted and
grown. We pray that yours will too.
And most of you, though not all, will have children and grandchildren.
We hope you will remember Calvin fondly and, like the Class of 1952,
will encourage and support those you love the most to follow your path
here. Over half of the alumni who responded to my survey had at least
one child graduate from Calvin. Geneviere Mulder has the record, with
seven children, all of whom are Calvin grads. A third have grandkids
at Calvin now. At least five of today’s graduates have grandparents
in the Class of 1952. One member of that class told his five children:
“I’ll help you go to any university you want, as long as
you graduate from Calvin first.” That doesn’t happen as
often today as it did in the past, perhaps to the distress of the Admissions
Office, but we hope that many of your children and children’s
children will follow you here.
The members of the Class of 1952 used what they learned here to do
well in business, the arts, the professions, and in the rest of their
lives too. They founded real estate companies and farmed. They became
professors and nurses and teachers and housewives and salespeople and
preachers and missionaries. Many found themselves in careers they had
not expected, or in more jobs than they had planned. By and large, they
have done well. They worked hard. They achieved things they scarcely
imagined in 1952. Sometimes they failed, but Dr. Roger Slater quotes
poet James Russell Lowell, who said: “Not failure, but low aim
is crime.” Aim high, Class of 2002, aim high.
Members of the Class of 1952 have won the awards their chosen vocations
give. One of them, Dr. Calvin Seerveld, received Calvin’s Distinguished
Alumni Award for his inspirational work as a Christian scholar and artist.
Do take the time some day, by the way, to look over this booklet that
profiles the winners of that award. The graduates received copies as
they entered. There will be copies available at the reception for the
rest of you. We give the award to people like
- Artist Elmer Yazzie, who has taught for twenty-four years at Rehoboth
Christian School;
- Geraldine Vanden Berg, a missionary to Nigeria for thirty years;
- Richard DeVos who built a great corporation;
- F. Stuart Kingma, who helped to eradicate smallpox.
Shortly you will hear from John and Juliana Steensma and Jack Kuipers,
this year’s recipients.
I expect one or two of you will receive it too, and you will honor
us more by accepting it than we will honor you by giving it.
But when I asked the Class of 1952 what they were proudest of, most
did not first list those things. I had one recipient who was disappointed
with me for asking the question of what the graduates were proudest.
He wrote, and I quote: “You would serve your audience well by
never mentioning pride or being proud, except in a pejorative way….
There is a dog food by that name.” Well, that may be, but I saw
little in what the Class of 1952 told me that I think would displease
our Lord, and much that made me delighted to represent the college that
graduated such fine people.
My favorite story is Stan Van Reken’s. Stan got an engineering
degree, but turned out to be a real estate entrepreneur with remarkable
accomplishments. Yet he is most pleased with what he has helped others
to do. Some years back, he found that it was hard for missionaries to
afford Christian higher education for their children. He established
the Christian Missionary Scholarship Foundation, which this year supports
one hundred and eleven students, fifty-nine of them at Calvin. Seven
are members of the Class of 2002. “A giving nature,” he
says, is rewarded more than you can imagine.” Stan is one of many.
In ways mostly quiet, the men and women who sit behind me wearing that
fifty-year medallion have acted justly and loved mercy and walked humbly
with their God since they left the Franklin Street campus. They are
good examples to you, and to the rest of us.
Let me give you a small sampling of the range of experiences they
have had.
- Case Vande Reé graduated and quickly found himself on the
front line in Korea. So did others.
- Dr. James Ryskamp was a member of the autopsy team for President
Kennedy and operated on Lyndon Johnson.
- Nel Gritter Jasperse raised eight children, then became a Hospice
nurse.
- Thomas Smith has a patent for a dart game. • Eugene VanderWall
helped develop engines for NASA spacecraft.
- Evelyn Karsten got kissed by a rabbi.
- Robert VanderLaan served for seventeen years in the Michigan State
Senate.
- Howard Schipper helped resettle about 10,000 refugees.
- Ken Ludema directed thirty-one doctoral dissertations.
- Jake Terpstra had lunch with Phyllis Diller.
Trudy Vermaire told me that she had a much richer life than she ever
expected. That can be said of many of the Class of 1952, and it will
be true for you too.
But the Class of 1952 has had its measure of profound grief. Some stood
by the graves of children or spouses who died too soon. One had a daughter
raped and left for dead. Some marriages failed. One had two houses burn
down with all her possessions. Some have had deep personal disappointments.
They stood amidst of the ruins of their lives and dreams, wondering
how they could go on. Some of you will stand in such circumstances.
You will wonder why it happened to you, and where God was and is.
The Class of 1952 can tell you that as deep as your grief will be,
with the support of your God, your family, your friends, you will endure,
and more than that, find joy again. I asked them what advice they had
for those of you who might endure what they had endured, and I got words
of deep faith that had overcome, though not forgotten. Listen to pediatrician
Kathleen Zandstra Mannion, who had three sons die young. “The
ways of God are unknown,” she says, “but we know that all
things work together for our good.” Or hear Robert and Carolyn
Bolt, whose fourth child came into the world with Down’s Syndrome.
“The Lord,” they told me, “has a way of turning something
that seems terrible at the time it occurs into something that is good.”
Some of you will discover the grace to say such things with more conviction
than you can today imagine.
In a few minutes you will join the 50,000 living alumni of Calvin
College, many of whom surround you in this place. Then you will sing
the Calvin Alma Mater. There are two verses. The second is the important
one. Pay heed as you sing.
Calvin, Calvin, God has been thy guide;
Dear Alma Mater, thy strength He shall provide;
Be loyal ever to the faith of old,
God's name and honor we ever shall uphold!
Most of you, like most of the Class of 1952, will mean those words,
and will find ways to live them out wherever you may go.
Perhaps you can follow the advice of Donald Holwerda who is somehow
listed as a member of the Class of 1952, even though a detour through
the Korean War postponed his diploma until 1956. He urges you to sing
the Calvin Alma Mater in the shower! It’s good advice, even though
Don’s wife told me he doesn’t do it himself. If like me
you’re the kind of singer that makes dogs howl, find another way
to proclaim those words. But whenever and wherever and however you sing
or remember or live out those words in the coming fifty years, you will
do your alma mater proud.
On a day in May in the year 2052, the Lord willing, many of you will
return to Calvin College. You will wear the fifty-year medallion. You
will see the vigorous faces of the Class of 2052 and wonder how time
passed so quickly. You will have raised families, and will see some
of your grandchildren in front of you. You will have served God and
his church, built careers, traveled far and wide, taken pleasure in
the Creation, and much more. Some of you will have endured things you
cannot now conceive of enduring. And most of you, like most of the Class
of 1952, will be proudest not of what you have done for your own reputation
or standing, but of what you have done to advance the Kingdom of God.
Members of the Class of 2002, congratulations on the work you have
so far done. I join with your families, your friends, the professors
and staff of Calvin College, and with the 50,000 who were here before
you, to wish you blessed lives filled with our Lord’s grace. |